Wedding speech is a tradition that goes back to ancient times. Over the years, it has evolved into more than just simple “here’s to health, wealth and lots of good fortune”. It is expected to hear something wise, nice, and emotional that pulls on the heart strings. While having their best intentions, often times people end up with awkward and long winded speeches that drowns the reception energy and bores your guests. We don’t want that to happen to your wedding, so here’s a few tips to avoid this dreaded situation. Pass it on to anyone giving a toast, they’ll thank you later.

A person in an elegant black evening dress stands on a wooden deck outside a rustic cabin-style building.
Someone in a black tuxedo with a white boutonniere reads from papers during a formal wedding ceremony.
Someone in an elegant black evening gown stands laughing on a wooden deck with rustic cabin architecture behind them.
A couple in wedding attire share a candid moment drinking champagne on an outdoor deck during autumn.
Two couples in formal attire share laughter and drinks during an elegant outdoor celebration on a deck.


Ask anyone giving a toast to keep it under 3 minutes and for it to be family friendly. And don’t be fooled! What may seem like a brilliant impromptu speech will almost certainly has taken hours to prepare. The best thing you can do is to prepare for your speech. Writing things down helps to organize thoughts and stay to the point. you can use note cards if you need to, but avoid using phones. Paper never fails. Phones do, and we've seen it happen!

If your guests need some guidance finding the right words for this beautiful occasion or just need some advice to polish it off and make it a piece of art that newlyweds will remember long time the party is over - refer them to the speech writing service, where a custom speech could be crafted just for them.

Mountain Wordsmith is a local writer who will help you find your words and put them together. You can find Courtney's website here: www.mountainwordsmith.com


Cheers to good speeches!


A wedding party in formal attire poses together on a waterfront deck at sunset with tall trees in the background.
A wedding couple poses on natural stone steps surrounded by trees and greenery in an outdoor garden setting.